Queers Question the Politics of Gay Marriage
Andrew Cornell

To read the Advocate or other mainstream gay and lesbian papers in recent months, one might easily believe every queer person on the planet had suddenly gone marriage crazy. Since November 2003, when the Massachusetts Supreme Court ruled that banning same-sex marriage was discriminatory, national LGBT rights organizations such as the Human Rights Campaign and Freedom To Marry have been working at a feverish pace to make legal gay marriage a reality. The decision by the mayors of San Francisco, California and New Paltz, NewYork to perform same sex marriages — until legal injunctions ordered them to halt — drove the excitement level even higher. Now, with a constitutional amendment that would ban such marriages at the federal level looming darkly on the horizon, pressure is rising for queer activists and their allies to close ranks and make an all out push for "marriage equality."
Thousands of same-sex couples packed courthouses in a handful of cities earlier this year to marry. Yet a sizable contingent of queer folks aren’t feeling it.

Far from the cut-and-dried moral issue that it’s been portrayed as, many radical queers question who benefits from the campaign, whether it disregards and hides others’ needs, and what to make of its eerie tendency to echo conservative language and policies. As an effort to sort through the issues myself, I decided to ask a number of friends and acquaintances to share their thoughts on the politics of gay marriage.

Nava Etshalom, a recent graduate of Oberlin College who, like thousands of other young people, grew up in a queer family without any form of government recognition, reacted to the recent national debate about gay marriage with considerable ambivalence. "In some ways, just having some attention focused on the meaning of queer family has been exciting," she said. "But the way that that’s functioning to narrow, not expand, meanings of queer family in the U.S. is scary."

Showdown Over Same-Sex Marriage
By Bill Berkowitz, AlterNet..
The Religious Right is mobilizing a massive lobbying effort for the Federal Marriage Amendment.


If Karl Rove, the president's chief advisor, and Ed Gillespie, the chairman of the Republican National Committee, hadn't been searching for the mother of all wedge issues to galvanize their right wing base; if the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court hadn't ruled that the states constitution should apply to all of the state's citizens; if Rep. Marilyn Musgrave, a relatively unknown Republican congresswoman from Colorado hadn't got the ball rolling in Washington; if Texas sodomy law hadn't been overturned by the U.S. Supreme Court; if newly elected Mayor Gavin Newsome hadn't opened San Francisco City Hall to thousands; and if the president hadn't endorsed it, it is unlikely the U.S. Senate would be on the brink of making history.

But all these things have happened, most during the past year, and now, sometime during the week of July 12, the Senate will be voting on a Federal Marriage Amendment, a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.
Perhaps the key event in getting the Senate to take up the issue occurred in late February, when America's war president came out of the war-room closet just long enough to endorse a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. This was the imprimatur that GOP leaders and religious right organizations needed to take the gloves off: "The President was right on target when he said activist courts have left the American people no other recourse, said Tony Perkins, the president of the Washington, DC lobbying group, the Family Research Council. The American Center for Law and Justice, a right wing legal outfit founded by the Rev. Pat Robertson, issued a statement saying that Bush's endorsement "serves as a critical catalyst to energize and organize those who will work diligently to ensure that marriage remains an institution between one man and one woman."

While the decision of the Massachusetts Court, and the photos circulated world-wide of thousands lining up outside City Hall in San Francisco to receive marriage licenses may have aggravated some people, that irritation didn't swell into a national call to action as many on the right had predicted. And while polls showed that most Americans opposed gay couples getting hitched, the issue didn't gain much traction, even after the president's endorsement. For most Americans, it appeared that amending the constitution was not an issue to be taken lightly.

AME votes to bar ministers from performing same-sex unions
BY CHRISTINA LEE KNAUSS
Knight Ridder Newspapers


COLUMBIA, S.C. - (KRT) - Delegates at the national convention of the African Methodist Episcopal (AME) church voted unanimously Wednesday not to allow any of the church's ministers to perform same-sex unions.

The 2.5 million-member, mostly black denomination is the most recent Christian group in the nation to address the hot-button issue of gay marriage.

Delegates at the AME convention in Indianapolis used a unanimous voice vote to pass the motion, which made it illegal within the denomination for any minister to perform a same-sex marriage or civil union.

The vote came without any debate, said the Rev. Joe Darby, pastor of Charleston's Morris Brown AME, who attended the conference. He said it went smoothly because members consider other issues, such as civil rights, education and the presidential election, more urgent.

Maine community recognizes 20 years of change following gay slaying


Twenty years after the killing of a gay man shocked the city, gays and lesbians feel safer in Bangor, Maine. Some say the tragedy marked the beginning of changing attitudes. Back then the movement for gay rights was making huge strides in places like San Francisco, but gays and lesbians in Bangor had little to protect them from discrimination, ridicule, and physical attacks. Today Bangor gays and lesbians acknowledge that much has changed since July 7, 1984, when an openly gay man, Charles O. Howard, was chased down, beaten, kicked, and thrown into the Kenduskeag Stream. "I think I'm safe 99% of the time," says Dan Williams, a gay man who lives in Bangor. But he remains cautious, despite all the changes. "Do I still look for an escape route when I'm about to walk through a group of people on the sidewalk? Of course."

Howard, who wore makeup and carried a purse, had recently moved to Bangor from Portsmouth, N.H. His death came after three teens chased him and a companion in downtown Bangor. Howard tripped on a curb, and the three boys, James Baines, 15, Shawn Mabry, 16, and Daniel Ness, 17, threw him off a bridge. Charged with murder, they eventually pleaded guilty to manslaughter and were sentenced to the Maine Youth Center in South Portland. The murder made headlines across the country. The city now has an antidiscrimination ordinance, the police department has a hate-crimes officer, the state has a hate-crimes law, and there's even a monument to Howard on the bridge he was thrown from.

Jamie Rogers, community education coordinator at the Eastern Maine AIDS Network, says Bangor is a tolerant city, but young gay, lesbian, and transgendered people still have a multitude of battles to fight: "It can be tough, and some of them have more issues than just their sexuality," she says. "It's very individual. Some have it easy at their high schools, and others have it tough, just like the heterosexual population, really."

Miami Beach moves to protect transgendered people and domestic partner rights
BY CASEY WOODS


Miami Beach on Wednesday banned discrimination against transgendered people, a decision hailed by members of the gay, lesbian and transgender community as keeping the city at the forefront of protecting their rights.

The city commission also gave preliminary approval to an expansion of the ordinance that allows city employees to register their live-in domestic partners to receive many of the same rights given to a spouse.

The unanimous commission action on transgendered people modifies the city's human rights ordinance to prohibit discrimination against a category ranging from cross-dressers to those who have changed their sex through surgery.

It requires they be given equal rights in areas such as employment, housing, and public services.

Gay marriage on House agenda before presidential election
MARY DALRYMPLE, Associated Press Writer


House Republican leaders who were once unenthusiastic about President Bush's call for a constitutional amendment against recognizing gay marriages now say they plan to bring the idea to a vote just before next November's election.

Senate Republicans want to force votes on the amendment in the next two weeks, just before Democrats convene to nominate Massachusetts Sen. John Kerry as their candidate to unseat Bush.

Also in July, the House plans to debate a measure that would give state courts rather than certain federal ones jurisdiction of gay marriage cases.

"We feel like marriage is under attack. Marriage is a spiritual bond between one man and one woman," House Majority Leader Tom DeLay, R-Texas, said Wednesday.

GAY-MARRIAGE BENEFITS
Inconvenience stores
BY KRISTEN LOMBARDI


It may be the biggest unanswered question in the wake of same-sex marriage in Massachusetts: how will the state’s employers treat gay married couples when it comes to employee-benefits plans?

The answer is, at least for one major Bay State employer — Cumberland Farms, in Canton, which operates 900 or so gas stations and convenience stores throughout the Northeast — not very well.

Last month, Bay Windows broke the news that the retail chain will deny medical and dental coverage to legal spouses of its gay and lesbian employees, after an internal memo outlining the new policy was leaked to the paper. As reported in Bay Windows, a May 12 memo to employees justifies the company’s decision not to recognize same-sex marriages when determining employee benefits by explaining that it is permitted to do so under federal law. Because Cumberland Farms "self-insures" its employees and pays for the cost of their health-care coverage directly, it does not have to abide by any state laws, including the Supreme Judicial Court’s November 2003 ruling granting marital rights to same-sex couples. By contrast, companies with health plans such as Harvard Pilgrim Health Care and Blue Cross Blue Shield do.

Unity Project Releases Needs Assessment Data

More than a year ago, the Unity Project asked members of the lgbt community in Vermont to answer a questionnaire on what the community needed most. The results have been compiled since last October, but had not been released before now, said Samara Foundation Executive Director Bill Lippert, because they were not yet in an easily presentable form.

Samara Foundation partnered with the Vermont Community Foundation to raise funds for the Unity Project to grant to the community. The needs assessment "informed" the priorities of the grant committee in deciding what kinds of projects would be welcomed for possible grants from the project.

The most interesting assessment survey results came from the community issues respondents ranked as most important: civil rights (89%), protection against violence and HIV/AIDS education and prevention (77% each), access to lgbtq-friendly physical and mental health care (76% each), support for lgbtq youth in school (75%), and community education to decrease homophobia (75%).

At the same time, some of those items were ranked among issues that were not being adequately addressed, topmost among them community education to decrease homophobia. Responses from outside Chittenden County said that reducing isolation was not being adequately addressed, while Chittenden County respondents tended to identify greater community cohesiveness as an inadequately addressed issue. Support for lgbt elderly (66%), teachers (67%), and youth (65%) was high on the list of issues needing more attention, followed by support for kids in lgbt families, affordable housing, and HIV/AIDS medical services (60% each).

Gay Rights Group Begins Massive Ad Campaign To Defeat Marriage Amendment
by Doreen Brandt
365Gay.com Newscenter
Washington Bureau


(Washington) A multi-media ad campaign was launched today to defeat the Federal Marriage Amendment. A vote on the FMA is expected next week in the U.S. Senate.

Senate Majority Leader Bill Frist, R-Tenn., has announced his intention to bring up the Federal Marriage Amendment for a vote during the week of July 12th.

The ad campaign, sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, will continue through next week's debate and vote, urging leaders not to write discrimination into the U.S. Constitution

"The Federal Marriage Amendment is unnecessary, discriminatory and undermines the Constitution," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques.

Camp Trans plans protest of festival policy
By Sarah Mieras

HART - Transgender activists from throughout the world will once again set up camp across the road from the world's largest women-only event to protest a long standing policy that excludes certain groups of women from attending.

Close to three decades old, the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival has a policy that excludes anyone who is not a born female from attending the weeklong event, held on more than 600 private acres in the Manistee National Forest. Transgender activists have long hailed the policy as discriminatory, since it bars pre- and post-operative male to female persons from attending the festival.

In response to the policy, Camp Trans was born as a protest outside the Women's Festival gates in 1991. In recent years Camp Trans has become a festival in its own right, including workshops, camping space and outreach to festival attendants. Despite its recent transition into its own event, organizers of Camp Trans maintain that the focus of the gathering still remains changing the Womyn's Festival policy to include a more inclusive definition of "woman."

"I think the women-born-only policy doesn't take into account the reality of transgender identity," said Carrie Tune-Copeland, secretary for TransGender Michigan. "If the Festival was to truly appreciate the richness of gender identity then more people would be let in and they wouldn't be acting like the gender police."


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Couples sue for marriage rights in Maryland

The American Civil Liberties Union on Wednesday sued the city of Baltimore and four Maryland counties for the right of same-sex couples to marry. The suit was filed in Baltimore circuit court on behalf of nine couples and a man whose partner recently died. The couples had sought marriage licenses and were denied, said Ken Choe, staff attorney for the ACLU's Lesbian and Gay Rights Project, based in New York.

Maryland law specifically defines marriage as a union between a man and woman. In February, Attorney General Joseph Curran sent a memo to state legislators and the 24 clerks of the court reminding them that clerks are not authorized to issue licenses to gay couples. Curran's memo also said the law prohibits recognition of same-sex marriages from other states. A spokesman said Wednesday that the attorney general had not received a copy of the ACLU lawsuit.

The suit asks the court to declare that state law is unjustified discrimination based on gender and sexual orientation. The suit asks the court to prohibit the 24 circuit court clerks from refusing to issue licenses to same-sex couples. "Maryland law excludes hundreds of gay couples the legal protection intended to help families at the time of their greatest need, such as in sickness and death," said Choe.

Transsexual charges Soopers bias
By Kelly Pate Dwyer
Denver Post Staff Writer


Kim Dower has worked as a pharmacist at King Soopers in Denver for the past nine years. But Dower, biologically a man, is undergoing gender transformation and wants to wear women's clothes at work.

King Soopers' management won't allow it, said Dower, who on Friday filed a discrimination complaint against the Denver-based grocery chain.

"I want to see King Soopers change their policy so other people like me can't be discriminated against," said Dower, 50, who is recently separated and has two kids from a previous marriage. "I have struggled with this most my life."

Dower hired a lawyer and filed a complaint Friday with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission


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Gay + Lesbian Rowing Federation Helps Launch the NY Pride Rowing Association


The Gay + Lesbian Rowing Federation (GLRF) helped local organizers launch and promote the New York Pride Rowing Association at the annual New York Pride Festival in Lower Manhattan Sunday, June 27th. Working out of the GLRF booth at the Festival, local rowers handed out brochures, took email lists, and demonstrated the sport on a rowing machine to interest both current and former rowers as well as those new to the sport.

According to organizers, New York Pride Rowing Association will be a community rowing club serving New York's gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender community and their friends and supporters. Prior to its launch, the organization secured a berth as one of the first official affiliates for New York City's newly delivered Peter Jay Sharp floating boathouse. Learn to row classes are already underway and the first crews of the new club will hit the water on Tuesday evening, July 6th.

Located on the Harlem River in northeast Manhattan, the boathouse is sponsored by the New York Restoration Project, spearheaded by performer and community activist Bette Midler. The goal of the Project is to restore, develop and revitalize parks, community gardens and open space in some of New York City's most neglected neighborhoods. The boathouse will host both clubs and rowing programs, including juniors, collegiate, and masters (New York Pride Rowing, the Sharp Rowing Club, and Manhattan College are among the first affiliates). In return, their boathouse dues will help fund an outreach program targeting local community youth.

The idea for a gay rowing club came about through the efforts of Vincenzo Paparo, Chairman and Thomas P. Curry, Executive Director of the New York Rowing Association. Robert Bourguignon of the law firm Buchanan Ingersoll PC, acted as corporate counsel to New York Pride. The firm provides legal services to non-traditional families and unmarried couples. As part of its commitment to diversity and as a community service, the law firm decided to foster and support the creation of a New York City-based gay rowing club. Mr. Paparo, also a partner with the law firm Proskauer Rose, indicated that it was the public visibility of out gay and lesbian rowers, crews, and clubs around the nation that provided the inspiration for the endeavor.


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LGBT History Month proposed by gay rights group
Ben Townley, Gay.com UK


A campaign to launch a LGBT History Month to promote awareness and education about sexual diversity in the UK has received backing from mainstream groups and organisations.

The event, which would celebrate past, present and future LGBT experiences across the country, was originally suggested by the Schools Out group earlier this month, but has already received support from the government's Equalities Minister Jacqui Smith and international human rights group Amnesty International.

Schools Out said that the annual event would be based on the country's Black History Month, which acknowledged and celebrated a previously unseen history as well as the contribution made to modern society by Black people.

In a statement today, the group added that a celebratory month will be a chance for all sectors of the UK to discuss LGBT people, their impact on today's culture and the issues surrounding acceptance.


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Second gay rights rally planned for 25 July
By Stacy Farrar


Following the success of the recent Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby rally at Sydney Town Hall, a second group has planned a rally on Sunday 25 July.

Community Action Against Homophobia group has called the Rally to encourage the Senate to consider the rights of same-sex couples.

A Senate inquiry into same-sex marriage and adoption is currently underway. Organizers hope the rally will raise awareness of the inquiry.

"The best submission for this Senate inquiry is another mass outing of the GLBIT community and its friends," organizer Kylie Moon said.

Opponents of marriage amendment start "decline to sign" campaign

Opponents of a proposed state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages have started a campaign against it.

The group called ``Equality North Dakota'' says the proposal would drive young people out of the state and promote discrimination. It's launching what it calls a ``decline to sign'' campaign.

The group hopes to stop the North Dakota Family Alliance from getting enough signatures by August Third to put the issue on the November general election ballot. The alliance needs 25,688 signatures by August Third.

Former Fargo mayor Jon Lindgren says the amendment would drive young people out of the state and promote discrimination.


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Groups urge 'no' to petitions
By NATALIE STOREY, Bismarck Tribune

Like many teenagers in North Dakota, Sara Berger has a mom who is a good cook. She says dinners are fairly typical at her house, with one notable difference -- her other mom does the dishes.

Berger is a pretty 16-year-old who is a good student at Mandan High School. She has a boyfriend, friends, a job and two lesbian moms who she likes to play rummy with. She says she's living proof that children of same-sex unions can turn out just as normal as children with heterosexual parents.

"People in favor of the marriage amendment often argue that it is in "children's best interests" to have both a mom and a dad, and that if the marriage amendment wasn't passed, it would jeopardize children and the sanctity of marriage," Berger said. "I'm here to say that it wouldn't."

Berger, along with a half-dozen others, spoke out Tuesday against the proposal to place an amendment to the North Dakota constitution on the ballot that would define marriage in the state as between a man and a woman, exclusively.


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Study: Northern Ireland needs better support for mothers of gay sons
Ben Townley, Gay.com UK


Northern Ireland is suffering from an absence of support networks for mothers of gay sons, according to a study that is set to be published for wider reading across the province.

According to Cathy Falconer, mothers who are looking for guidance or answers after their sons come out are faced with a brick wall across Ulster, which has seen recent accusations of homophobia.

She said that personal experience when her own son came out led her to conduct the study as part of her MSc in Guidance and Counselling.

“My son, Barry, was 17 when he told me he was gay. That was four years ago. I was totally devastated. I was literally falling apart,” Falconer said recently.


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Ex-officer charged with murder
Rios held without bond at Biggs center.
By MIKE WELLS of the Tribune’s staff


Trace DNA evidence found under the fingernails of murder victim Jesse Valencia prompted Special Prosecutor Morley Swingle to charge ex-Columbia police Officer Steven Rios today with first-degree murder and armed criminal action.

Rios remains in custody without bond at the Biggs Forensic Center in Fulton State Hospital. The charges were filed after a four-week investigation, in which police refused to call Rios a suspect.

Valencia, 23, a junior history major at the University of Missouri-Columbia, was found with his throat slashed June 5 in a yard near his East Campus neighborhood home. He was last seen about 3:45 a.m. that day walking home from a party. A neighbor overheard an argument sometime before 4:30 a.m. coming from Valencia’s apartment at 1414 Wilson Ave., police said.


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First Court Hearing Date for 3 Pride Parade Arrestees (Halsted 3)

Arrestees face felony charges of aggravated battery in altercation with anti-queer fundamentalists who invaded the Parade.

[Chicago] On Tuesday July 6th at Branch Court 42 (Belmont and Western, Room 2) at 9 am, defendants Robert Bernstein, Jeremy Hammond, and Neal Rysdahl will attend their first pretrial hearing regarding the altercation that occurred at the Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade involving a confrontation between anti-gay protesters and the Queer and Trans Caucus of CAN, culminating in the arrest of the 3 anarchist pro-queer activists.

The incident stemmed from Republican “Family Values” Congressional candidate for the 4th District Anthony Lopez-Cisneros who fraudulently invaded the Pride Parade with a contingent of homophobic religious fundamentalists. We’re asking why the three defendants were arrested, rather than the bigots who violently ambushed Pride. In turn, why did Chicago police officers perpetuate the violence by assaulting the 3 defendants and other queers? Homophobic fundamentalists chanting anti-gay epithets in the Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade is the same incitement as Nazi infiltration of Holocaust Survivors’ events. Their banners even read “God Hates Fags” and “AIDS is a cure, not a disease.”

We want Cook County State’s Attorney Dick Devine to drop all the charges against the Halsted 3 immediately. Legal defense contributions can be made payable to the Chicago Anti-Bashing Network (CABN), with “Halsted 3 Defense” in the m


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Homosexuals protest police ‘atrocity’
 
Kathmandu: Homosexuals or male having sex with male (MSMs) protesting against the police atrocity and human rights violation, in front of the Singha Durbar, were thrashed by the police.

The rally organised by the Blue Diamond Society (BDS), began from Bhadrakali at 4.30 and moved toward Singha Durbar to submit a memorandum to the prime minister but because the office time was already over they could not do so. And the police beat them up and ordered to leave the place saying staging protests around Singha Durbar was banned.

BDS in its statement has called for an "immediate end of sexual oppression and assault on sexual minorities from the police and society." Likewise, it has demanded a thorough investigation on violence against the sexual minorities by the police and other parties calling on the authorities to punish the perpetrators. It has further called for de-criminilisation of sexual minorities and secure their rights.


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GAY SEX 'LED TO MURDER'
A SECURITY worker had sex with a man he had picked up at a gay bar and then beat him to death, a court heard.


The attack happened on February 13 at the victim's home at St John's Road, Balby, Doncaster, after he went home with Peter Sanderson Bennett (25), of Howard Street, off Pellon Lane, Halifax.

Sheffield Crown Court heard how Michael Petriw, aged 39, died 24 hours after the assault and had injuries consistent with being punched and kicked in the head six times.

He made a desperate 999 call when Bennett turned on him after the pair had sex.

Bennett denies murder and told police he attacked Mr Petriw in self-defence after he tried forcing sex on him


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Gay ambassador assailed by Romanian newspaper
State Department, Romanian president praise Michael Guest
By LOU CHIBBARO JR.


The State Department and the president of Romania have issued strong statements of support for the gay U.S. ambassador to Romania, Michael Guest, following a yearlong onslaught of articles in an English language newspaper in Bucharest accusing Guest of corruption and mismanagement.

A State Department spokesperson this week strongly denied a report in the newspaper, Bucharest Business Week, that the White House had “recalled” Guest from his ambassador’s post because of alleged improprieties.

The spokesperson, Margo Squire, said Guest completed a three-year assignment as Romanian ambassador and would be returning to Washington in July to begin a new assignment in the U.S. Foreign Service, where he has served with “distinction” for more than 20 years.

She said his three-year term had been set at the time Guest was named to his ambassador’s job by President Bush in 2001 and that the newspaper articles had played “absolutely no role” in the timing of his departure.


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Gay rights opponents give up referendum effort
By: Associated Press

(Santa Fe-AP) -- Opponents of a gay rights provision in state law have given up trying to get a referendum on the November ballot to overturn it.

The opponents decided not to try to submit petitions for a referendum to the secretary of state by Friday’s deadline.

The attorney general had said in an opinion that the Human Rights Act is among those laws not able to be overturned by voters.  But the opponents could have tried to submit signatures anyway, then gone to court when the petitions were refused by the secretary of state.
Instead, state House member Earlene Roberts, a Republican from Lovington, says the opponents will focus their energy and resources on trying to a get a federal constitutional amendment passed banning gay marriage.



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Gay couple to challenge local authority by getting married

SAN JUAN (AP) – Pedro Julio Serrano, president of the Puerto Rico For All organization, announced his intention to marry his partner Leo de Jesus in Massachusetts in order to challenge the ban of gay marriages in Puerto Rico.

The couple also announced their intention of adopting a black Puerto Rican girl.

"We are still working on the legal strategy. We want to get married because then we would be a legal couple to society and the state,” Serrano said in published reports.

The couple plans to go to Massachusetts in September.


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Top Three Car Insurance Companies in New York Will Respect Gay Couples' Marriages


The three largest car insurance companies in New York -- which, together, provide insurance to a third of all drivers in the state -- will respect the marriages of same-sex couples, providing them with the same rates and coverage as married heterosexual couples, Lambda Legal said today. In recent months, Lambda Legal has been working with couples throughout the state who were married in Canada to ensure that their marriages are fully respected.

"New York law requires respect for marriages that were validly performed elsewhere. As more same-sex couples get married, it's critical that they receive rights and protections - from the government as well as the private sector," said Alphonso David, Lambda Legal Staff Attorney. "The insurance industry is making a strong statement for fairness, and we're working with other businesses and government agencies to secure similar results."

Allstate, State Farm and Geico auto insurance companies -- which are, in order, the top three providers in New York -- have agreed to comply with state law and respect all same-sex couples who are legally married, David said. Electric auto insurance also treats its legally married lesbian and gay clients equally.


Lambda Legal discovered that Geico had previously respected the marriages of only some same-sex couples while denying the same benefits to others. Two New York couples, who worked with Lambda Legal and pay for Geico auto insurance coverage, were treated unequally by the insurance giant. But Geico recently reversed its inconsistent practice and said it will respect all same-sex couples who are legally married.


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Gay Verger Denied Job
A gay cathedral verger has had his offer of employment over turned after telling them that he had a male live-in partner.

Lee Taylor, one of four vergers at Southwark Cathedral in South London, claims that he was offered the job at St Davids cathedral in Pembrokeshire, Wales, but that the offer was withdrawn by the Dean, the Very Rev Wyn Evans, when he said he was bringing his live-in partner.

“I went from feeling successful when they offered me the job to feeling very unworthy. They gave me something and then took it away again. That’s what makes me angry,” Taylor told The Times.

According to the newspaper Taylor was so keen to work at St David’s that he was willing to take a cut in salary, from the £12,000 he earns at Southwark to little more than £9,000 in Wales.

Taylor claims that after his interview he was told that he was “the right person for the job” but when he said that he would be bringing his male live-in partner he had a call from the Dean who told him he would not be offered the job.

Gays and Lesbians Oppose Man-Woman Marriage Amendment
David Catanese


     SIXTEEN YEAR OLD SARA BERGER HAS TWO MOMS. AND SHE FEELS THE LIFESTYLE HER FAMILY HAS CHOSEN IS NO THREAT TO THE TRADITIONAL FAMILY.

Sara Berger - I'm living proof that having homosexual parents is just as beneficial as having heterosexual ones.

Christina Kindel - What I don't believe is that 2 moms or 2 dads can give the same thing to their children as a mom and Dad.

WHILE STATE LAW ALREADY CLEARLY DEFINES MARRIAGE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN, THE NORTH DAKOTA FAMILY ALLIANCE CONTENDS THE CONSTITUTION NEEDS TO BE CHANGED TO PREVENT JUDGES FROM OVERTURNING THE LAW.


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Court Date Set In Mass. Out-Of-State Weddings Case
by Margo Williams
365Gay.com Newscenter
Boston Bureau


(Boston, Massachusetts) Thirteen Massachusetts town clerks will square off against Attorney General Thomas Reilly in a Boston courtroom next Tuesday in a battle to allow out-of-state same-sex couples wed.

Same-sex marriage became legal in Massachusetts this spring but only residents of the state, and those gay couples who swear they intend to move here are eligible for marriage license applications.

The clerks say barring out-of-state same-sex couples is discriminatory and a violation of the commonwealth's Constitution.

At issue in the case is a directive from Reilly that the clerks must obey a 1913 law that says marriage licenses cannot be issued to couples from other states if those marriages would be "void" in the states where the couples reside.

Arrest and abuse of Iraqi children revealed

BERLIN,—More than 100 children being held in prisons in Iraq were arrested and suffered abuse from U.S. and coalition soldiers, according to the Red Cross, reports Der Spiegel Online.

ANSA reports that the online version of the weekly, which in turn cites the program Report, from the SWR network, affirms that the abusive episodes also took place in Abu Ghraib, the Baghdad prison where other cases of torture were reported.

“Between January and May of this year, we registered 107 children in total during 19 visits to six different prisons,” stated Florian Westphal, International Red Cross spokesman, in an interview by SWR in Geneva.

These were prisons under the control of the occupation forces, Westphal emphasized, adding that the number of detained children could be even higher.

Arkansas governor favors ban on recognition of gay marriages
Arkansans may vote on the issue in November.
By: The Associated Press


LITTLE ROCK, Ark. -- Gov. Mike Huckabee says defining marriage as only between a man and a woman would silence the loud voices of activists who want to change social history. On his statewide radio show on Tuesday, Huckabee said he is among the more than 200,000 Arkansans who signed petitions to put to a statewide vote a proposed state constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage and civil unions in the state.

Huckabee says the measure will not actually ban anything. He says it would authorize the state to not recognize such unions from other states. Huckabee says he favors a federal constitutional ban on gay marriage backed by President Bush.

Anti-gay marriage registrar ordered to resign


AMSTERDAM − Leeuwarden Council is demanding that a marriage registrar who has refused to officiate at gay and lesbian weddings resign her position from January 2005.

The city council previously tried in 2001 to force the resignation of the public servant − who is in principle opposed to gay marriages − but a judge thwarted the move due to a procedural error on the part of the municipal authority.

If the issue comes to a court battle again, the judge will need to make a precedence-setting ruling as to whether a public servant with conscientious objections may refuse to marry a homosexual couple.

The public servant, identified as Nynke Eringa-Boogaardt, has refused to confirm if she will take legal action against the council's decision. She is currently consulting her lawyer.

1,000 Rally for Gay Rights
Supporters protest new law they say is discriminatory.
By David Harrison


Before Dallas Miller moved to Fairfax City from South Carolina to live with his partner, he was more concerned about discrimination against gay men in the District — where he works as a psychologist and actor — than in Virginia.

But he found he had more to fear in Virginia. "I was dismayed once I realized," he said.

Three years later, Miller still lives in Fairfax and active in efforts to resist legislation designed to make Virginia less gay-friendly. Last Wednesday, he joined about 1,000 other demonstrators for an afternoon rally outside the Fairfax County Government Center protesting the implementation of a new law forbidding same-sex couples to enter into contractual agreements.

The new law is "of dubious constitutionality and morally bankrupt," said Del. Brian Moran (D-46), speaking for Northern Virginia lawmakers who opposed the law and joined him on the stage.

Assembly passes bill giving partners right to care for loved ones

On June 10, the New York State Assembly overwhelmingly approved giving same-sex and opposite sex domestic partners the same rights spouses and next-of-kin have when taking care of loved ones in hospitals and nursing homes.

Assemblymember Daniel Hooker (R-Sharon Springs) was the only member to vote “No”.

Empire State Pride Agenda, New York’s statewide gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender civil rights organizations and the lead advocacy group backing the bill’s passage, thanked the Assembly for its vote on A.9872 and urged the State Senate to take up and pass the measure before the end of the session.

“Partners who love and care for each other have a fundamental right to be together when one of them is sick and hospitalized,” said Alan Van Capelle, Pride Agenda Executive Director. “Today’s vote in the Assembly reaffirms this fundamental right. It also says a great deal about the values of the people of New York, their inherent sense of fairness and their decency. Today I am even prouder than usual to be a New Yorker!”

Sally’s Story
Sixteen years ago, Sayed Mursi went under the knife to become Sally, sparking a national debate on sex-change surgery.Today, as more and more children are born with genital defects, are we ready for round two?
By Azza Khattab


I don’t know what drew my attention first: The imposing giant of a woman with the flame-colored hair, or the gargantuan chocolate sundae she was attacking with such obvious delight. Whatever else you care to say about her, know this: Sally Mursi is a woman with one hell of an appetite.

“Good for you,” I blurt out with a smile. “It doesn’t show at all!”

Sally, I quickly discover, takes compliments — and questions, criticism, barbs and simple observations — with a roaring laugh that rocks you back in your seat.

“I know how to spoil myself rotten,” she says triumphantly, feisty and cynical to the core. “To hell with dieting! Give me a break! No sane woman could say ‘No’ to this! What’s a kilo or two? Stand in front of the mirror, shake your booty and POOF — they’re gone!”


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CHAIN'S FAGGOT AD BANNED


A RADIO advert for a supermarket chain has been banned for using the word faggots.

It featured a husband complaining that his wife served up the same meals every week.

When she told him it was Friday so he was getting his usual faggots, he replied: 'I've nothing against faggots, I just don't fancy them.'

Three listeners complained to media watchdog Ofcom about the Somerfield advert, saying faggots suggested homosexuals.


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NEA Republicans alter rules to oust their leader
By George Archibald
THE WASHINGTON TIMES

Republican delegates to the National Education Association's annual convention yesterday changed their caucus' rules in order to remove their chairwoman over her stance against homosexuality.

    A group of liberal Republicans from California and Texas joined forces to oust Diane Lenning, an Orange County, Calif., high school teacher, as chairwoman of the NEA Republican Educators Caucus.

    The Republican infighting came as the nation's largest school union overwhelmingly endorsed Democratic presidential hopeful John Kerry, who is scheduled to speak to the assembly at 5 p.m. today.

    "It's unfortunate people have chosen this time to stage a liberal Republican coup," Mrs. Lenning said. "We could be recruiting new members and having a visual and verbal impact on the Representative Assembly floor when Kerry speaks."

Gay couple sues town of Secaucus
Charge firefighters with harassment
By Sarah N. Lynch
Journal staff writer

SECAUCUS - Two gay men who claim they've been harassed by members of the volunteer fire department for the last three months have filed a civil suit against the department and the town.

The complaint, filed Thursday in state Superior Court in Jersey City, also names the Secaucus Police Department, Fire Chief Frank Walters, Town Administrator Anthony Iacono, Mayor Dennis Elwell and 30 unnamed individuals as defendants.

The suit claims harassment, discrimination, retaliation, negligence and violation of state civil rights laws.

The plaintiffs, Peter de Vries and Timothy Carter, say problems escalated after an incident on April 25, when the couple asked a boisterous group of off-duty firemen returning from an awards dinner in Cliffside Park to quiet down. The firefighters retaliated by throwing rocks at their house and issuing death threats to the men, according to the suit.


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Domestic partners awaiting their day
New registration law takes effect Saturday
BY KATHY BARRETT CARTER
Star-Ledger Staff

For Marty Finkel and Mike Plake, South Orange village is the place to be this weekend.

A new domestic partnership law making New Jersey the fifth state in the nation to give gay couples many rights accorded married people takes effect Saturday. In South Orange, officials will begin registering couples as soon as they can -- a minute after midnight.
 
Finkel, 45, and Plake, 41, who lobbied for the law, expect to be the first couple officially recognized as domestic partners in New Jersey.

"Everyone in the state is welcome," Finkel said. "It is very exciting."


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Group fights same-sex marriage ban
By JAMES A. FUSSELL The Kansas City Star


Calling a proposed constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage in Missouri “immoral” and “against the spirit of the Declaration of Independence,” several area families gathered Monday to oppose it.

“People who are pushing this amendment are trying to make second-class citizens,” said John Carey of Kansas City. He and his partner, Dudley Hogue, would like the right to get married.

The families appeared at a Monday news conference on behalf of the Constitution Defense League, a group formed to defeat the measure. The proposed law would amend the state constitution to define marriage as exclusively between a man and a woman.

Missouri voters will decide the issue Aug. 3.



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Nepal's gay community angry over police "atrocity"
Ben Townley, Gay.com UK

Gay rights activists have been beaten by police officers in Nepal, after they protested over the country's lack of equality for sexual minorities, according to local press reports.

The group's rally took place outside the country's seat of government, the Singha Durba, in Kathmandu earlier this week the Himalayan Times says.

It was organised by national gay rights group and support network the Blue Diamond Society (BDS), which had intended to deliver a letter to the Prime Minister calling for the decriminalisation of homosexuality and equality for the LGBT community.

However, when arriving at the parliament building the protestors were attacked by the police and beaten. The officers claimed protests outside the parliamentary buildings were banned, the newspaper claims.


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EXPANSION FOR GAY HS IS $TALLED
By CARL CAMPANILE


The Bloomberg administration might be having second thoughts about promoting an experimental high school serving gay and lesbian students.

The Department of Education's budget halts the planned expansion of the controversial Harvey Milk HS in Greenwich Village, according to funding figures obtained by The Post.

Enrollment at Harvey Milk HS was scheduled to jump to 170 students in September, from 100 students this past school year, when it converted from a small program to a sanctioned, stand-alone high school.

The city put $3.2 million into renovations so the facility could accommodate the rapid two-year expansion.


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Lawyers want to repeal gay adoption ban
The Florida Bar's family law section voted to fight the ban. The Bar's governors will decide whether it can proceed.
By Associated Press


TALLAHASSEE - Family law attorneys want to get rid of Florida's ban on adoptions by gays.

By unanimous vote, the executive council of the family law section of the Florida Bar has decided to push for a repeal.

"Fundamental fairness demands that healthy parents should be allowed to adopt regardless," said Evan Marks, a Miami attorney who became chairman of the section last month.

Florida is the only state in the nation with a complete ban on adoption by gays, whether single or as a couple.



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Child-care czar sees dark motive in firing
By Thomas Caywood


The state commissioner charged with protecting kids in child care, a lesbian planning to marry her partner, is refusing to step down after a top Romney deputy asked her to resign last week.

    ``I'll be talking with a lawyer to review my options,'' said Office of Child Care Commissioner Ardith Wieworka, who said she assumes she'll be fired today.

     Gov. Mitt Romney's stand against gay marriage - which took him to Capitol Hill last month to urge passage of a proposed U.S. constitutional amendment to ban it - has Wieworka questioning if her pending nuptials are the unspoken reason for her being asked to leave after eight years as commissioner.

     ``I'm certainly wondering it,'' she said.


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Societies polarised by rising profile of homosexuals
By Terry Kirby, Chief Reporter



Widespread acceptance of homosexuality in many areas of society has been accompanied by a rise in the number of countries where it is punishable by death and a polarisation of attitudes elsewhere, according to a new book.

Although gay and lesbian people are more prominent in society than ever before, the price of this attention is that they are now being persecuted in many parts of the world where they were previously unnoticed.

The book, Sex, Love and Homophobia, by Vanessa Baird and published by Amnesty International, is an overview of the history of gays and lesbians and their current status around the world.

In the foreword, Archbishop Desmond Tutu says the persecution of people for their sexual orientation is every bit as unjust as the crime against humanity that was apartheid. "This is a matter of ordinary justice," he says. "We struggled against apartheid ... because black people were being made to suffer for something we could do nothing about - our very skins. It is the same with sexual orientation. It is a given."


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Local same-sex couples will apply to marry
By PERRY SWANSON - THE GAZETTE


Several gay and lesbian couples plan to apply for marriage licenses July 16 to draw attention to Colorado’s legal prohibition of same-sex marriages.

That will come two days before 50 same-sex couples have a symbolic ceremony in Acacia Park in downtown Colorado Springs.

The couples know they’ll be turned down for licenses, but they want to make a point, said Frank Volz, who plans to apply for a license with his partner, Brian Lund.

“I’m hoping that people will put a face to us and realize we’re not freaks, we’re not monsters trying to disrupt anyone else’s life,” Volz said.


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Duke Ends Pact With YMCA Over Domestic Partners
by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff


(Durham, North Carolina) Duke University has pulled the plug on a deal with the YMCA after the agency said it would not honor the university's domestic partner plan.

Duke offers the same-sex partners of its staff and faculty the same benefits it offers married couples.  

Under an agreement with the 'Y', Duke promoted the agency in its employee handbook in exchange for Duke employees receiving discounted memberships.

But, the YMCA has refused to provide family memberships to same-sex couples.  The two sides have been arguing over the issue since April. 


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Keeping it queer
By Polly Bush


A new contestant has emerged in the lead-up to this year's federal poll, with the launching of a political party prepared to take on the Howard Government's gay wedge issue - or at least, take the issue up to a higher level.

The Keeping-It-Queer (KIQ) Party, launched today, has been formed as a direct response to the Government's recent policy announcements to legislate against marriage and overseas adoption rights for gay and lesbian Australians.

While the new Party opposes the Government's policies, Party President Les Beyan said the Coalition's "regrettable" position left it no other option but to work with the Government in further creating a segregated society.

"If John Howard wants to create an Us-and-Them Society, the KIQ Party will ensure we roll out these reforms to all spheres of Australian life," the new Party President said.

Conn. couple fights to keep their same-sex marriage legal
By LAURA WALSH, Associated Press


MERIDEN, Conn. (AP) - Among the first things Katy Gossman and Kristin Marshall did after their May wedding in Massachusetts was change Marshall's last name to Gossman. But they are still waiting for her new driver's license to make it official.

When the lesbian couple made the trek to the Connecticut Motor Vehicle Department, the clerk was at a loss for what to do.

"He started to punch it into the computer, and then he looked at the marriage license again. He looked at us, he looked at the license," Katy said. "He said he didn't know what to do with us. They weren't saying no, but they weren't saying yes."

The Gossmans were married in Worcester, Mass., on May 20, three days after gay marriage became legal in Massachusetts. And now they are one of eight couples who have filed a lawsuit challenging a l913 Massachusetts law that has been used to block out-of-state couples from marrying there.


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Bias bill's burial brings calls for change
Panel chairs wield too much power, groups say
By PATRICK JACKSON
Dover Bureau reporter


The battle is over - for now. But the fight is sure to continue until Election Day, and the ripples may create political turbulence when the General Assembly convenes again in January.

Senate Democratic leaders declared House Bill 99 dead even before the General Assembly gathered for the final day Wednesday. The measure that would prohibit discrimination based on a person's sexual orientation had been buried in the Senate Judiciary Committee.

But Senate President Pro Tem Thurman Adams Jr., D-Bridgeville, almost overestimated his hold on his party - which holds a five-seat majority - legislators said.

Supporters of the bill were working hard as the session wound down to get senators to sign a petition that would have forced the bill out of committee and onto the floor for a vote they felt sure they would win. The House had approved the measure in June 2003


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Florida Lawyers Pledge To Fight Gay Adoption Ban 
by Jackie Hallifax
The Associated Press


(Tallahassee, Florida) Family law attorneys want to get rid of Florida's ban on gay adoptions.

By unanimous vote, the executive council of the Family Law Section of the Florida Bar has decided to push for a repeal.

"Fundamental fairness demands that healthy parents should be allowed to adopt regardless," said Evan Marks, a Miami attorney who became chairman of the section last month.

Florida is the only state in the nation with a complete ban on adoption by gays, whether single or as a couple.


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Columbus City Workers Get Partner Benefits - But At A Cost
by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff
Posted: July 5, 2004 5:01 pm ET

(Columbus, Ohio) The partners of gay and lesbian city workers in Columbus, Ohio are now eligible for health benefits, but only if they pay for them out of their own pockets.

Mayor Michael Coleman's administration quietly arranged to get the health insurance coverage through a private insurance company.

The move meant Coleman would not see a repeat of a nasty battle with City Council six years ago which ended in the defeat of a plan that would have been paid for by the city.

In 1998, the council unanimously passed domestic-partner benefits with two hours' notice before the vote. Two months later, after conservative religious groups threatened a citizen referendum council repealed the benefits. 


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Gay marriage opponents in Michigan target November ballot for amendment
TIM MARTIN, Associated Press Writer
LANSING, Mich. (AP) --

Supporters of a ban on gay marriage submitted nearly 500,000 signatures Monday in an effort to get a proposed constitutional amendment on the November ballot.

If adopted, the amendment would define marriage as a union between one man and one woman. Gay marriage is banned in Michigan, but opponents want stronger language to protect against potential future judicial decisions or legislative initiatives.

The group, Citizens for the Protection of Marriage, had submitted more than 475,000 signatures to state election officials. If 317,757 of the signatures are valid, the issue could be on the Nov. 2 ballot.

"The people responded," said Marlene Elwell, the group's president. "They're tired of politicians and activist judges making changes without having a voice. This gives them a voice."

Ad Banned for Being Offensive to Homosexuals
By Anita Singh, Showbusiness Editor, PA News


An advert for supermarket chain Somerfield has been banned for using the word faggots.

It featured a husband complaining that his wife served up the same meals every week.

When she told him it was Friday so he was getting his usual faggots, he replied: “I’ve nothing against faggots, I just don’t fancy them.”

Three listeners complained to media watchdog Ofcom about the radio ad, saying faggots alluded to homosexuals.


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YMCA defines ‘couple’
Rebekah Danaher
Star Staff Intern


The Durham YMCA’s refusal to allow same-sex couples family discount memberships prompted Duke University to prematurely end its promotional contract with the YMCA.

That contract will be terminated on Aug. 27, a month before the scheduled expiration date, because the YMCA will not recognize Duke employees in same-sex relationships as eligible for their family plan.

The controversy brings to light the issue of same-sex couples and their eligibility for family discounts at YMCAs across the state.

Cameron Corder, CEO of Cleveland County Family YMCA, said membership guidelines are left up to each individual branch of the YMCA corporation.

Girding the gay vote
Collaborative effort under way to elect friendly candidates
By Javier Erik Olvera, Rocky Mountain News


One of the most intense campaigns ever to entice gay rights supporters to vote in the November election is under way in Colorado.

The goal: to galvanize enough voters to defeat candidates who don't support gay issues such as anti-discrimination laws and same-sex marriage.

If such candidates are elected, campaign organizers fear they will stand in the way of the gay rights movement as it gains momentum and mainstream support.

"We can't afford to lose," said Ted Trimpa, a local attorney and gay rights lobbyist.


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'Fight for socialism & LGBT liberation'
By Minnie Bruce Pratt
New York


John Parker, Teresa Gutierrez and LeiLani Dowell led a dynamic Workers World Party contingent in New York City's annual Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans Pride March on June 27. Parker and Gutierrez are WWP's candidates for president and vice president of the United States. Dowell is a Workers World Party member running on the Peace and Freedom Party ticket for Congress in the 8th District of California, which includes San Francisco.

Organizers estimate that 1.5 million people marched the long route from the Upper East Side into Greenwich Village and down Christopher Street, past the site of the Stonewall Rebellion that ignited the modern U.S. lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender liberation movements in 1969. This year's celebration marked the 35th anniversary of the night that gay and lesbian combatants, including transgender African American, Latina and white homeless youths, fought back against police brutality during a raid on the Stonewall Bar.

Behind a Workers World banner with their names and the call to "Fight for Socialism and LGBT Liberation," the candidates advanced through streets lined with tens of thousands of spectators. They were met with enthusiastic applause, cheers, and whistles of approval along the early route, and with huge roars of excitement as they entered the Village.

Parker was the only presidential candidate to march in the parade. In a statement of solidarity to the march, the candidates said: "We are longtime fighters in the struggle for LGBT liberation--two of us as lesbians, and the other as an ally who has fought together, shoulder to shoulder with LGBT people for his entire political life. We are also workers, people of color, supporters of the labor movement, anti-war and anti-imperialist activists."


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Capitol rally calls for support of traditional marriage
By: News 8 Austin Staff

The south steps of the State Capitol served as the backdrop for what organizers called a "marriage rally."

As the U.S. Senate prepares to vote on the Marriage Protection Amendment, those supporting this rally say they're standing up for traditional marriage.

"I think it gives us hope for the nation. That we're here to pray and reclaim this nation from the direction it's heading," Kristin Ohlson of Grace Covenant Church said.

The Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby of Texas held a counter-rally. The group believes marriage should be an option for gay couples in our state.


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Burlington considers protection for gays

 
BURLINGTON (AP) -- City officials in Burlington say they might ask residents to vote on whether gay and lesbian citizens should be protected under the city's anti-discrimination code.
 
The city attorney says residents would not decide the issue for good -- but would register their opinions in a straw vote that would guide the city council in its ultimate decision.
 
The city's Human Rights Commission first recommended adding sexual orientation to the anti-discrimination code back in 2002. It's ignited controversy in the community ever since.
 
Mayor Mike Edwards says he thinks a vote would help city officials consider all the options and find consensus.


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NZ CIVIL UNIONS ON WAY
By Tim Benzie


New Zealanders are one step closer to legalising same-sex civil unions this week after parliament approved two landmark bills for further discussion, The New Zealand Herald reported.

The Civil Union Bill will allow same-sex unions to be registered under the law and passed its first reading last Thursday by a vote of 66 to 50. It is estimated that 10,000 same-sex couples will be able to take advantage of the proposed law.

The Relationships (Statutory References) Bill will allow for neutral laws on relationships – whether civil unions, de facto or marriages. The bill will amend over 100 separate statutes and passed its first reading by 77 votes to 42 yesterday.

Both bills have now been referred to the country’s justice and electoral committee for public submissions.


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Indian media got it wrong, says lesbian couple


Washington: The Indian-American lesbian couple, which created ripples in the national media here and India after they got married in a Hindu ceremony, has blamed most of the Indian media for getting it 'all wrong' about their marriage and their status.

Mala Nagarajan and Vega Subramaniam are the only Indian-American couple, which is party to a law suit challenging denial of marriage licenses to gay couples by King County in Washington state. ''I was ready for the national (US) publicity. But it was freaky to have our names in the 'Times of India', 'Hindustan Times', many of which got it all wrong,'' said Vega in an interview to the New California Media.

She said the Indian media had described them as NRIs, 'which we are not'. Both of them are Indian-Americans, she added. Also, one of the newspapers had said the two had 'claimed to have had' a Hindu wedding ceremony, Vega said. Their friends were surprised by these reports, Vega said, because they were present at the wedding and 'we have the pictures'.


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With homosexuality illegal, gays suffer AIDS silently
Sabin Russell


Thirty-seven days after his wedding in 1999, Shashi Shetye found out he was HIV-positive.

It took another nine months before he could bring himself to tell his wife, who had no inkling that Shetye was infected, or that he was gay.

"It was an arranged marriage, but it was a mistake to go through with it. I still feel guilty about it,'' said Shetye.

Arranged marriages are the norm in India, and many of Shetye's gay friends were involved in double lives, married, with wives and children. Shetye and his wife divorced, and he has since found a boyfriend. His former wife is not infected with HIV, but five years later, she remains single


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Call To Halt Rally Of Islamic Homophobes
The Gay and Lesbian Humanist Association (GALHA) is calling on London’s mayor Ken Livingstone to ban a rally by the extremist and ultra-homophobic Islamic group Al-Muhajiroun.


In a letter to Mr Livingstone, GALHA says the publicity for the rally, due to take place in Trafalgar Square on 25 July, refers to “Islam’s unique social system that eliminates sexual deviancy.”

The group has proposed that homosexuality should carry the death penalty. This, GALHA asserts, is “clearly promoting the killing of gay people.”
 
It is understood that in 2002 the Greater London Authority refused permission for the Al-Muhajiroun to stage a similar rally, but it went ahead anyway.
 
A spokesman for GALHA said: “This rally is obviously intended to stir up hatred against gay people and other groups and should be stopped. This will be an opportunity for the GLA and the police to demonstrate that they are serious about protecting gay people from this kind of hate-mongering and incitement.”


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Gay Persecution Rising Around the World -Book
Mon Jul 5, 2004 08:18 AM ET
By Kate Kelland

LONDON (Reuters) - Gay Pride marches are mainstream in some countries and gay politicians, actors and pop stars are out and proud -- but homophobia is growing across the world with increasing numbers of countries making it punishable by death.

A new book published by human rights group Amnesty International says despite widespread acceptance of gays and lesbians in some countries, violent persecution of homosexuals is on the rise and has reached "epidemic" levels in others.

"Lesbian and gay people who form or join organizations, be they political or social, are being violently persecuted in many parts of the world where before they might have been unnoticed," writes the book's British author Vanessa Baird.

She singles out Uganda, Zimbabwe, Jamaica, El Salvador and Latin America in particular, where she says "the targeting and killing of transgender people has become an epidemic on streets."


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Gays focus of effort to cut crime
By Nancy L. Othón
Staff Writer


Asked to provide the gay community with ways to stay safe, police in Lake Worth and West Palm Beach have offered to conduct seminars and do safety surveys at gay bars in an effort to ensure people aren't targeted as they leave entertainment establishments.

Police said they also will try to get the word out that they are willing to investigate anonymous complaints. Members of Palm Beach County's gay community and police met recently to discuss safety issues and violence against gays at the request of Compass, the county's gay and lesbian community and social service center, and the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council.

Several incidents earlier this year, including one April 24 in which a gay man was robbed by someone he met at a bar in Lake Worth, prompted leaders in the gay community to request the meeting.

Girding the gay vote
Collaborative effort under way to elect friendly candidates
By Javier Erik Olvera, Rocky Mountain News


One of the most intense campaigns ever to entice gay rights supporters to vote in the November election is under way in Colorado.

The goal: to galvanize enough voters to defeat candidates who don't support gay issues such as anti-discrimination laws and same-sex marriage.

If such candidates are elected, campaign organizers fear they will stand in the way of the gay rights movement as it gains momentum and mainstream support.

"We can't afford to lose," said Ted Trimpa, a local attorney and gay rights lobbyist.


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'Fight for socialism & LGBT liberation'
By Minnie Bruce Pratt
New York


John Parker, Teresa Gutierrez and LeiLani Dowell led a dynamic Workers World Party contingent in New York City's annual Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans Pride March on June 27. Parker and Gutierrez are WWP's candidates for president and vice president of the United States. Dowell is a Workers World Party member running on the Peace and Freedom Party ticket for Congress in the 8th District of California, which includes San Francisco.

Organizers estimate that 1.5 million people marched the long route from the Upper East Side into Greenwich Village and down Christopher Street, past the site of the Stonewall Rebellion that ignited the modern U.S. lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender liberation movements in 1969. This year's celebration marked the 35th anniversary of the night that gay and lesbian combatants, including transgender African American, Latina and white homeless youths, fought back against police brutality during a raid on the Stonewall Bar.

Behind a Workers World banner with their names and the call to "Fight for Socialism and LGBT Liberation," the candidates advanced through streets lined with tens of thousands of spectators. They were met with enthusiastic applause, cheers, and whistles of approval along the early route, and with huge roars of excitement as they entered the Village.

Parker was the only presidential candidate to march in the parade. In a statement of solidarity to the march, the candidates said: "We are longtime fighters in the struggle for LGBT liberation--two of us as lesbians, and the other as an ally who has fought together, shoulder to shoulder with LGBT people for his entire political life. We are also workers, people of color, supporters of the labor movement, anti-war and anti-imperialist activists."


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Capitol rally calls for support of traditional marriage
By: News 8 Austin Staff

The south steps of the State Capitol served as the backdrop for what organizers called a "marriage rally."

As the U.S. Senate prepares to vote on the Marriage Protection Amendment, those supporting this rally say they're standing up for traditional marriage.

"I think it gives us hope for the nation. That we're here to pray and reclaim this nation from the direction it's heading," Kristin Ohlson of Grace Covenant Church said.

The Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby of Texas held a counter-rally. The group believes marriage should be an option for gay couples in our state.


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Burlington considers protection for gays

 
BURLINGTON (AP) -- City officials in Burlington say they might ask residents to vote on whether gay and lesbian citizens should be protected under the city's anti-discrimination code.
 
The city attorney says residents would not decide the issue for good -- but would register their opinions in a straw vote that would guide the city council in its ultimate decision.
 
The city's Human Rights Commission first recommended adding sexual orientation to the anti-discrimination code back in 2002. It's ignited controversy in the community ever since.
 
Mayor Mike Edwards says he thinks a vote would help city officials consider all the options and find consensus.


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NZ CIVIL UNIONS ON WAY
By Tim Benzie


New Zealanders are one step closer to legalising same-sex civil unions this week after parliament approved two landmark bills for further discussion, The New Zealand Herald reported.

The Civil Union Bill will allow same-sex unions to be registered under the law and passed its first reading last Thursday by a vote of 66 to 50. It is estimated that 10,000 same-sex couples will be able to take advantage of the proposed law.

The Relationships (Statutory References) Bill will allow for neutral laws on relationships – whether civil unions, de facto or marriages. The bill will amend over 100 separate statutes and passed its first reading by 77 votes to 42 yesterday.

Both bills have now been referred to the country’s justice and electoral committee for public submissions.


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Indian media got it wrong, says lesbian couple


Washington: The Indian-American lesbian couple, which created ripples in the national media here and India after they got married in a Hindu ceremony, has blamed most of the Indian media for getting it 'all wrong' about their marriage and their status.

Mala Nagarajan and Vega Subramaniam are the only Indian-American couple, which is party to a law suit challenging denial of marriage licenses to gay couples by King County in Washington state. ''I was ready for the national (US) publicity. But it was freaky to have our names in the 'Times of India', 'Hindustan Times', many of which got it all wrong,'' said Vega in an interview to the New California Media.

She said the Indian media had described them as NRIs, 'which we are not'. Both of them are Indian-Americans, she added. Also, one of the newspapers had said the two had 'claimed to have had' a Hindu wedding ceremony, Vega said. Their friends were surprised by these reports, Vega said, because they were present at the wedding and 'we have the pictures'.


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With homosexuality illegal, gays suffer AIDS silently
Sabin Russell


Thirty-seven days after his wedding in 1999, Shashi Shetye found out he was HIV-positive.

It took another nine months before he could bring himself to tell his wife, who had no inkling that Shetye was infected, or that he was gay.

"It was an arranged marriage, but it was a mistake to go through with it. I still feel guilty about it,'' said Shetye.

Arranged marriages are the norm in India, and many of Shetye's gay friends were involved in double lives, married, with wives and children. Shetye and his wife divorced, and he has since found a boyfriend. His former wife is not infected with HIV, but five years later, she remains single


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Call To Halt Rally Of Islamic Homophobes
The Gay and Lesbian Humanist Association (GALHA) is calling on London’s mayor Ken Livingstone to ban a rally by the extremist and ultra-homophobic Islamic group Al-Muhajiroun.


In a letter to Mr Livingstone, GALHA says the publicity for the rally, due to take place in Trafalgar Square on 25 July, refers to “Islam’s unique social system that eliminates sexual deviancy.”

The group has proposed that homosexuality should carry the death penalty. This, GALHA asserts, is “clearly promoting the killing of gay people.”
 
It is understood that in 2002 the Greater London Authority refused permission for the Al-Muhajiroun to stage a similar rally, but it went ahead anyway.
 
A spokesman for GALHA said: “This rally is obviously intended to stir up hatred against gay people and other groups and should be stopped. This will be an opportunity for the GLA and the police to demonstrate that they are serious about protecting gay people from this kind of hate-mongering and incitement.”


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Gay Persecution Rising Around the World -Book
Mon Jul 5, 2004 08:18 AM ET
By Kate Kelland

LONDON (Reuters) - Gay Pride marches are mainstream in some countries and gay politicians, actors and pop stars are out and proud -- but homophobia is growing across the world with increasing numbers of countries making it punishable by death.

A new book published by human rights group Amnesty International says despite widespread acceptance of gays and lesbians in some countries, violent persecution of homosexuals is on the rise and has reached "epidemic" levels in others.

"Lesbian and gay people who form or join organizations, be they political or social, are being violently persecuted in many parts of the world where before they might have been unnoticed," writes the book's British author Vanessa Baird.

She singles out Uganda, Zimbabwe, Jamaica, El Salvador and Latin America in particular, where she says "the targeting and killing of transgender people has become an epidemic on streets."


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Gays focus of effort to cut crime
By Nancy L. Othón
Staff Writer


Asked to provide the gay community with ways to stay safe, police in Lake Worth and West Palm Beach have offered to conduct seminars and do safety surveys at gay bars in an effort to ensure people aren't targeted as they leave entertainment establishments.

Police said they also will try to get the word out that they are willing to investigate anonymous complaints. Members of Palm Beach County's gay community and police met recently to discuss safety issues and violence against gays at the request of Compass, the county's gay and lesbian community and social service center, and the Palm Beach County Human Rights Council.

Several incidents earlier this year, including one April 24 in which a gay man was robbed by someone he met at a bar in Lake Worth, prompted leaders in the gay community to request the meeting.

Societies polarised by rising profile of homosexuals
By Terry Kirby, Chief Reporter


Widespread acceptance of homosexuality in many areas of society has been accompanied by a rise in the number of countries where it is punishable by death and a polarisation of attitudes elsewhere, according to a new book.

Although gay and lesbian people are more prominent in society than ever before, the price of this attention is that they are now being persecuted in many parts of the world where they were previously unnoticed.

The book, Sex, Love and Homophobia, by Vanessa Baird and published by Amnesty International, is an overview of the history of gays and lesbians and their current status around the world.

In the foreword, Archbishop Desmond Tutu says the persecution of people for their sexual orientation is every bit as unjust as the crime against humanity that was apartheid. "This is a matter of ordinary justice," he says. "We struggled against apartheid ... because black people were being made to suffer for something we could do nothing about - our very skins. It is the same with sexual orientation. It is a given."


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   Man faces murder charge again
BROOKE JACOBSON


Police allege an argument broke out between the two men at a home in Amy Street, Tooraweenah, with Mr James shot in the chest as a result.

He was rushed to Gilgandra hospital by friends but died on arrival.

Police facts tendered to the court shortly after his arrest claim Mr Grosser, the victim and a male witness argued about an alleged homosexual advance by the accused towards Mr James that occurred a week before the shooting.

During the argument, the victim and a witness allegedly assaulted Mr Grosser by kicking him and punching him in the face.


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Gay rights: A matter of pride for the Metropolitan Police?
The force's attitude towards homosexuality may have changed, but did past prejudice compromise investigations?
By Jason Bennetto


When more than 100 uniformed gay officers took to the streets of London in the annual Gay Pride march, they were doing more than celebrating their sexuality. They were signalling the huge steps said to have been made in recent years by the Metropolitan Police in its attitude towards homosexuals and homophobic crime.

Now, in a move designed to signify its new approach, the Metropolitan Police has established an inquiry to examine whether past prejudice among officers influenced its investigation of anti-gay murders.

By studying the murders of six gay people dating back to 1990, the inquiry is intended to establish whether those investigations were compromised by prejudice and what lessons can be learnt for future murder hunts involving gay, bisexual and transsexual victims. It also aims to boost confidence among gays employed by the police.

The inquiry has been established because concerns remain that many gay people believe the police are still prejudiced against them, although it is widely accepted that the force has made progress in its handling of the issues.

Rape Nation
By Kari Lydersen, AlterNet.
From prisons to barracks and from Iraq to Tennessee, military sexual abuse is running rampant.


As a new officer in the Air Force who trusted the institution and the men she worked with, Dorothy Mackey didn't think she would ever be sexually assaulted by her fellow servicemen. She was wrong.

When a military ob-gyn did things during an examination that didn't seem right, soon after she joined the service in 1983, she tried to rationalize her disturbing thoughts away. When she had another bad experience with a military ob-gyn in 1986, at the Spangcahlem Air Force base in Germany where she was stationed, it was harder to look the other way.

"He sodomized me," she said. "I started looking into what happens in a normal ob-gyn examination, and that is definitely not supposed to be part of it."

But when she was violated again about a year later, it was clear. Her group was on a training mission in Spain, passing some downtime by playing volleyball. By this time she was a sergeant, in charge of many of the enlisted men there.

Group formed to support Civil Unions Bill
A Dunedin campaign group has formed to gather support for the Government's Civil Union Bill.


The 25-strong group was formed after a public meeting yesterday attracted aabout 40 people.

If passed, the bill will recognise both same-sex and heterosexual de facto relationships using wording which parallels the Marriage Act.

Both heterosexual and gay people and couples attended yesterday's meeting.

The turnout and the response was pleasing, organiser Barb Long said.


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MP defies Howard over gay marriage
By TOM RICHARDSON


SOUTH Australian federal Liberal MP Trish Worth has been actively campaigning against the Howard Government's policy of banning same-sex marriages.

Ms Worth, who in May in the party room opposed a move to ban same-sex marriages because she feared it would cost her votes in her marginal seat of Adelaide, has circulated letters to constituents arguing against the legislation.

The letter brands the move "completely unnecessary and could be seen to marginalise a section of the community for no sensible reason".

"My view is that the Government does not need to take such a heavy-handed approach to an issue that . . . does not need to be fixed," she wrote.


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Activists nationwide fight uphill battles against ballot initiatives
By Ethan Jacobs


Starting in August and continuing through Election Day this November, about 20 million Americans will take to the polls and vote on state constitutional amendments to ban same-sex marriage, according to Dave Fleischer, director of organizing and training for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF). If those votes, spread across an estimated 13 states, were cast today, he said, 14 million voters would choose to ban same-sex marriage, and every single amendment would pass.

"So we'd get the crap kicked out of us," said Fleischer. "We're an underdog in every state."

For New Englanders, the prospect of a ballot initiative to write a same-sex marriage ban into the state constitution seems a long way off. Such an amendment received initial approval in the Massachusetts Legislature in March, but it must win approval again in 2005 before going before voters in 2006. There are no amendments pending in any of the other New England states. But in the rest of the country there's a different story.

"We're really facing a grave situation," said Fleischer. "We have never had a year where this large a number of places are voting [on an anti-gay ballot initiative]."

Sex-Change (sic) Operation Tests Marriage Law

It will be up to some of the great minds of Kentucky law to find an answer.

The courtroom brainteaser comes courtesy of a Louisville marital dispute or, better yet, the case of the Paul who became a Paula.

The Paul in this scenario is Paul Spina. About 22 years ago, Spina married Sharon Hays, whose family owns a big Ford dealership in Louisville. Spina went to work for the in-laws, serving as general counsel to the company's network of car dealerships. Spina says he and his wife accumulated company stock worth

Last year, Spina went to Thailand and underwent a sex-change operation (sic). He returned with a new name: Paula Spina.


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Companies doing more to welcome gay workers
By CATRINE JOHANSSON
Orange County Register

An open work environment leads to happier employees and therefore higher productivity, said Kirk Snyder, 44, a researcher and teacher at USC who has written "Lavender Road to Success: The Career Guide for the Gay Community."

He bases the book on a study of 302 USC gay, lesbian, transgender or bisexual alumni he interviewed about their workplace experiences.

Snyder found that workers who hide their sexuality at work make less money and are less productive than openly gay people.

Technology, entertainment and human-resources sectors are the most welcoming, Snyder said, while finance, insurance and some medical fields still have a ways to go.


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Homophobia: a matter of life and death
Farida Iqbal
Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, intersex and queer (GLTBIQ) issues have been in the mainstream media a lot recently. Prime Minister John Howard has decided to ban gay marriage, a decision that conveniently coincides with the pre-election period.


Despite the media attention, there are some things that you don’t hear from the Channel 10 news or from Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. Some things you only find out through being in the GLBTIQ community — or by wading through piles of reports and public health journals.

The suicide rate for gay men, particularly young gay men, is ridiculously high in this country. It may be up to seven times that of heterosexuals, according to 2003 figures from the Victorian Department of Human Services and the Ministerial Advisory Committee on Gay and Lesbian Health. The suicide rates for other GLBTIQ people are also high but not as heavily researched. The Department of Human Services figures also show a high rate of mental illness among GLBTIQ people.

GLBTIQ people are very poorly treated in Australian prisons. Gays and transsexuals are at the bottom of the prison hierarchy and are commonly raped and abused. Male-to-female transsexuals are categorised as men and are placed in male prisons.

Prison is not a safe environment to be “out and proud”. Many prisoners commit suicide soon after “coming out” in prison. However, it is impossible to estimate the rate of GLBTIQ deaths in custody, because no research has been carried out on this subject.

Couple fighting for flight Airline says rule has tax purposes
By BILL HENSEL JR.
Copyright 2004 Houston Chronicle


A former flight attendant for Continental Airlines is challenging the carrier's decision to not offer travel benefits to his same-sex partner.

The skirmish shows the increasing battles over gay marriage and extending benefits to domestic partners don't end at the courthouse steps.

David Lee retired early from Continental in 1989 and was awarded six travel passes per year, which would allow him and a spouse to travel together.

When he married Daniel Vaillancourt on April 1 of this year, he asked Continental to allow his spouse to travel with him.

The Houston-based airline refused.


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Presbyterians to keep discussing gay issue
Homosexual ordination measure voted down Friday
By CHRISTINA LEE KNAUSS
Staff Writer


Presbyterian clergy and laity from the Columbia area say last week’s vote against ordaining gays and lesbians will not halt consideration of the issue in the denomination’s churches and classrooms.

On Friday night, the church’s legislative assembly, meeting in Richmond, Va., narrowly voted down a measure (259-255) that would have allowed regional governing bodies within the denomination to ordain gay clergy and lay officers.

Conservative Presbyterians within the denomination had warned a vote for gay ordination could cause the first major split in the church since the Civil War.

The lay leader of Columbia-area churches said the vote was a good thing.



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Politicians tried to define Rhea County by banning gays, but their definition didn’t match reality
by Joe Tarr

Anna Massey and Chris Denton sit at a picnic bench at Rhea County’s Cedar Point Park, munching sandwiches of white bread and processed cold cuts. A high school junior and freshman, respectively, the two just got back from a food run for one of the organizer’s of the county’s first Gay Day.

On the stage underneath the park’s picnic shelter, two hairy men in dresses sing songs and juggle. For today at least, surrounded by a few hundred gay men and lesbians, the two high schoolers are not part of the minority. They’re also probably not who the county commission had in mind when they passed a muddled resolution in March criminalizing homosexuals.

Massey and Denton have been trying to organize a gay and lesbian student group at Rhea County High, with some resistance from the school board.

Denton told a few people he was gay about a year ago. “I was just tired of being someone I wasn’t. I sort of threw up my hands and told a couple of people. It got back to my grandfather and he made me come out of the closet to my family. He’s very judgmental and he hates faggots,” says Denton, who adds that his grandfather hasn’t disowned him, he just doesn’t like to talk about it. “He loves me still.”


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Row in Lords over gay link to child abuse


Ulster peer Lord Maginnis has been accused of linking homosexuality with child abuse in a heated debate in the House in Lords.

The veteran Ulster Unionist politician spoke out over new Government legislation on civil partnerships for same sex couples.

The bill will give people in gay relationships the same tax and pension rights as married heterosexuals.

But Lord Maginnis argued it should not become law in Northern Ireland, until the Stormont Assembly had approved it.


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Michigan Woman Assaulted By Anti-Gay Petitioner


(Pontiac, MI) – An anti-gay activist, collecting signatures to place an anti-gay question on the November ballot, assaulted a woman who raised questions about the issue. The incident took place outside of the Oakland County Courthouse on Tuesday morning.

Rachel Lutz was on her way to the courthouse for an unrelated matter and witnessed the signature gatherer outside the building. The man was seeking support of an initiative that would ban equal rights for gay and lesbian couples. Lutz was familiar with the ballot drive to deny gay and lesbian couples access to marriage, civil unions and domestic partner benefits and began to inform potential signers about the issue, suggesting that the effort was discriminatory.


“He shoved me,” said Rachel Lutz. “I was standing by myself and did nothing to him, but obviously he was furious that I exercised my rights to free speech in favor of equality for gays. Finally, he asked if I’m a ‘lezzie’ and then he shoved me for no other reason. This really showed me, a straight ally of the gay community, the kind of real animosity these people have toward gays”


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Sri Lanka gays and 'sadists' battle to change law
Colombo


Sex between men is a criminal offence in Sri Lanka and lesbianism has been officially labelled "sadism", but the island's gays believe their long fight for equality is picking up pace amid regional moves to legalise homosexuality.

Sri Lanka's penal code, a legacy from British colonial rulers, makes sex between consenting men punishable by 12 years in jail, although the law is rarely enforced.

The main gay rights group here, Companions on a Journey, said Sri Lanka's turbulent politics has left activists and authorities groping for a solution to the issue of gay rights.

"We engage the minister of justice in a discussion one evening and the next morning he is out [of office]," Companions director Sherman de Rose said, referring to the sudden sackings of two governments in the past three years